Uruguay – most gay friendly country in South America

In late 2014, Montevideo launched its first gay-friendly advertising campaign, two years after Uruguay became the third country in the Americas to legalise same-sex marriage.

Best Montevideo GuidebookUruguay is the most gay friendly country in South America and 9th friendliest in the world according to the Spartacus International Gay Guide.

In 2005, the capital Montevideo became one of the few cities in the world to have a homomonument  – a rose-colored granite in the shape of a triangle inscribed with the words: “To Honour Diversity is to Honor Life”. It’s tucked in a little plaza in the Old City of Montevideo (though the plaza is miserable and deserves a good make-over).

Gays in Uruguay – part of the furniture?

The Rambla in Autumn. Gay Uruguay
Montevideans and visitors, gay and straight, let it all hang out on the rambla

In Montevideo, it’s common to see gay couples – men and women- holding hands on the rambla, the 25-km promenade that borders the River Plate. And while older generations may be taking their time to come around to the changes, younger generations are openly supportive of gay peers.

There are just a few gay bars and my experience is that gay men and women don’t tend to ghettoise. They are very much part of the general fabric of society. Though there is a certain air of “don’t ask, don’t tell”.

A gay emigrant to Uruguay living in Colonia writes: “I live in the Uruguayan equivalent of the Bible belt with my partner of 28 years and thus far have encountered no negative vibes at all. I’ve met with a few surprised looks from officialdom but nothing negative whatsoever. … Unlike the US, UK and Ireland, being gay has never been a crime here so there isn’t the same historical baggage and resentment that you still find in certain places… an individual’s sexuality is viewed as a personal matter and is of no concern to the neighbors (except perhaps for a bit of gossip.)”.

Progressive same-sex legislation in Uruguay for a century

The early twentieth-century is characterised by a golden era of progressive national politics which included the separation of church and state in 1917. In 1934, homosexuality was decriminalised. The same year the age of consent was lowered to 16 – regardless of who you were having sex with.

The past decade has seen big changes regarding rights for gays, lesbians and trans

Anti-discrimination laws are in place since 2003, and gays and lesbians are allowed to serve openly in the military and jointly adopt children since 2009.

Same-sex couples have been able to enter into civil unions since 2008  and since 2013, to marry.

Transgender people have been able to change their gender on official documentation since 2009.

So it looks like it’s time to plan your visit to the gay-friendliest nation in South America!

Gay friendly football in Uruguay

You probably know that football is practically a religion in secular Uruguay. Well, Uruguay has a football team which won second place in the 2012 Gay World Cup. Initially exclusively gay, the team now promotes diversity and accepts anyone – gay, trans or hetero.  [Ed. note: Regrettably all links on gay football in Uruguay are in Spanish]

Soon Guru’guay will be covering gay destinations in Uruguay

But for now….

Find out more about Gay friendly Montevideo in this 2015 article from Guru’guay.

Beaches

Chihuahua, a nudist beach several miles west of glitzy Punta del Este has the only hotel exclusively for gay couples in the whole of Uruguay. Casa Mario has just ten rooms. Great reviews too.

Winfred has impeccable taste and lovingly built this amazing house overlooking the beach at Chihuahua several years ago. It’s yours to rent for upto 6.

Further reading about gay Uruguay in English

 Many thanks to Rodrigo Borda, of Friendly Maps and half of the first gay couple to register to marry in Uruguay, for letting me pick his brains for this article. 

Photos courtesy of Rabble and Montecruz Photo via Flickr.

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